When it comes to mothering, I have the greatest role model. With grace and assurance my mama raised three girls. Truly, she is still raising us in many ways; just different than how it all began. My sisters and I each talk with her daily and she is a constant source of encouragement. Constant. She guides me in parenting, breaks down the details of my sister’s dates and acts as #1 cheerleader to our far away sister who is traversing life as a newlywed military wife.
What does that look like? Well, for one, I can toss in a cuss word when describing my day, you know, for dramatic effect, and order a margarita at dinner and she grins that grin of approval. The grin that says, “I’ve been there, girl, order another margarita if it sounds good.” She prays for me – for strength and wisdom, peace and discernment. She does hard things and having her life blood in me, helps be believe I can do hard things too.
Over the years our relationship has morphed from mother and child, to a deep, unique friendship. Her wisdom bypasses her years and her kind heart exudes through all her actions. She is the mother I hope to become. I am so blessed to live life with her each day.
Happy Mother’s Day, Mama — you best enjoy your gift and our wild day together. Let’s go thrifting and drink margaritas, ok?
Teamama says
Ya…. This is my favorite post. And that mango margarita was so good:)
Gretchen Bossio says
Yes, yes they were :)